As I laid outside today, I took a bit to just breath. I didn’t turn on music or scroll social media, I just laid there and listened to the birds and the noises of the city (and let’s be honest, that can be a real interesting treat).  And being still is very difficult for me. As it does, my mind began to wander and I was thinking about the divorce and what that has been like.   I wondered if even writing a blog post about it would be okay or if it would be something I shouldn’t actually share.   But as anyone who knows me knows, I am a words girl.   I can’t help it. I word vomit and it’s just how I process life. I don’t mean to be too much or annoying or overwhelming, though I’m sure I am all those things at any given moment and sometimes probably all three at once.   No worries. You will not get nitty gritty details nor am I going to air my dirty laundry. In any relationship it takes two people to make it work.   And sometimes that just never really co